Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Vacay Hooray!

So I have met this guy that I really like. I have still been reading my book. The book suggested that I tell him immediately. On the day I was going to tell him, he mentioned that taking him on a "day date" will keep someone in the friend zone. I decided not to tell him on  the day I saw him based off what he said. However, later that night he sent me a text message stating that he liked me. I told him that I liked him too. Therefore at this point I feel like its necessary to tell him. I have to be celibate because I am considered a "healing celibate" and I intend to be celibate for at least 6 months to a year god willing! I am going on vacay and will update again in March. This will include what he said when I told him about my celibacy pledge. We shall see! ;-)

Monday, February 14, 2011

Happy V day!

Happy valentines day! This mark's the day of a whole month of abstinance for me. I use this adjective because it is not considered true celibacy for 6 months. Can you believe that 6 months=s celibacy. I have 5 months left before I am truly celibate.  I have been doing very well. I have been reading my celibacy book and getting encouragement from my other friend who has been celibate for 5 years. I talked to her yesterday and she sent me a nice txt about abstinance today. The sensual celibacy book had good suggestions about making play part of the plan for sensual celibacy. I went and played on the swings yesterday and took a walk in nature as it was a really nice day out yesterday. I am also going to start running effective tomorrow. Since I have been abstinent for 4 months in the past. I am looking forward to pushing myself at the 5 month mark. I did what I do everyday love myself! I will continue doing so at this rate and pace forever!;-) We shall see

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Snow Day!

So usually when u think of a snow day u think of snuggling with your partner after being intimate. This was not an option for me. What to do well I called my clients and talked to friends on the phone which was nice. I have also decided to give myself a facial nicely. I am going to post some of the questions from Donna Marie Williams sensual celibacy. So in a way this will serve as my journal of celibacy which is what she suggests.
Have you ever said yes to sex when u really wanted to say no? if yes, is this a pattern you've repeated over the years with different me? Why have you done this? I have to say no to this question.
In your practice of celibacy, how do you feel about yourself as a woman? How do think your sexually active friends feel about your practice? How do you are perceived by society? Do you care? I feel great about myself as a woman because it was my choice, I was not forced i simply made a decision. I have two friends that have practiced celibacy. One of my friends is still celibate and has been for 5 years. My other friend was celibate for 3 years so they are my supports. I really don't care how I am perceived by society. If I did I seriously doubt I would be doing a blog if that is the case. LOl. We shall see. Oh more questions to come.