Monday, September 19, 2011

Men and celibacy.

I wondered how many men are celibate. I have a male friend who was celibate for over a year. When I asked him why he said the woman he use to date was sleeping around with people that he knew and didn't know and he found out about it in addition to him being overseas because he is in the military. Another guy that I know has been officially celibate for 6 months. He is always trying to get some from me though. I asked him repeatedly why its so hard for him to not try to get any. He replied that it has been too long and he really likes me. I wondered what makes a man become celibate. I figured it has to do with time and their jobs which has been the case with these two men. Additionally, some men say they will go crazy without it. I don't think that is true. I think that these days men are spoiled. That's right I said it! Women have spoiled them. I have said it once and will say it again. They can always go somewhere else. My question for them is is it worth it. Neway. I will continue being celibate. Peace!

Thursday, September 1, 2011

The rules....?

Ok so I randomly found this book called "All the Rules, time-tested secrets for capturing Mr. Right". I am currently on Rule 13. This book is very interesting and actually lends itself to celibacy to some degree in relation to dating. I realized that I made a mistake in counting in my last post. My bad I have about 5 months to go. I thought it was less. I feel like shit it has been 8 months. I forgot I started in January not December.Whomp Whomp...Oh well, it is prolly better for me. I will continue doing what I am doing. After I finish reading this "Rules" book I shall be putting it to use. I have learned that I already know how to do the rules with men I am not really that interested in. The real trick is to do use the rules with someone I really do like. I am interested in finding out where the rules will take me. I was going to ban myself from okcupid and craigslist to meet men in my last three months. It seems that I have 5 months left though, so I decided that the ban was no longer applicable.  Till next time, Love soul, and natural hair!